Terribly Burned

[Fornicator]

If you met a man/woman you thought was really pretty, nice, interesting--basically a good catch--but then you discovered that underneath their clothes they were a mess of skin grafts and scar tissue would they still interest you?

This woman at the coffee shop near my place is all of the above. I asked her out for dinner and she agreed but when I mentioned it to another girl who works there she said, "Oh, that's so nice of you" and I asked why, wondering what the hell is no nice about me asking out this awesome chick for dinner.

She told me she'd been terribly burned in a house fire when she was younger and that she is very self-conscious about how her body looks and that she has had a terrible time with guys who won't call her back once they discover her secret.

I'm still going to have dinner with her but now I'm kind of worried about how bad she really looks and even more so how I'll react to it--if it even gets to that point.

But I also don't want to be some shallow prick.

What do you think? Could you get past some sort of terrible disfigurement if the person was otherwise a good catch?

[yorkcountykid]

i guess it would depend how much i liked her.  good looks are fleeting. however, horrific looks are not. except one does become desensitized to them. look at sugeons or combat soldiers, in time, the blood and guts become commonplace. i would say every call is individual--check it out.

[Monique]

Love is blind. If you really end up caring for her non of her disfigurements will matter but you will have to be patient with her because I'm sure she is insecure, I'm assuming, so don't expect sex to be all wild and with the lights on or even without some clothes on. Again just assuming. 

[Fatz McGuinness]

it woudl be like making love with a giant beeft jerky strip  AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

oh man im so bad

[NSgirl]

I love the way forny just assumes this woman is going to jump in the sack with him just because he asked her out for dinner!LOL
sh- I went out on dates with many a man when I was single and did not end up in the sack with them.
Does he think it is a given that if he springs for a dinner she is going to screw him?
Perhaps once they converse for awhile she will deicde this guy does not stand a hope in hell of getting me in the sack!LOL
I would also assume if she is that self concious she would rather have a relationship build for a while first before becoming intimate with someone.
not all women are sluts and sleep with every guy they go out with.
well maybe in fornys case they are

[Itsy Bitsy]

I imagine that woman would need to feel a hell of a lot of trust for a person before revealing her scar tissue to him. A guy like Forn is not capable of that. The fact alone that he's posting this here and being an insensitive jackass about it makes him unqualified to make her feel safe enough.

[Fornicator]

I love the way forny just assumes this woman is going to jump in the sack with him just because he asked her out for dinner!LOL
sh- I went out on dates with many a man when I was single and did not end up in the sack with them.
Does he think it is a given that if he springs for a dinner she is going to screw him?
Perhaps once they converse for awhile she will deicde this guy does not stand a hope in hell of getting me in the sack!LOL
I would also assume if she is that self concious she would rather have a relationship build for a while first before becoming intimate with someone.
not all women are sluts and sleep with every guy they go out with.
well maybe in fornys case they are

You went out on dates with many a man because after refusing their advances they decided against a second date with such a cold fish.

I typically sleep with the women I take out for dinner or drinks or whatever--that's the whole point really, isn't it?

If I just wanted conversation and a dining companion I'd ask one of my buddies and we'd split the bill.

[Fornicator]

I imagine that woman would need to feel a hell of a lot of trust for a person before revealing her scar tissue to him. A guy like Forn is not capable of that. The fact alone that he's posting this here and being an insensitive jackass about it makes him unqualified to make her feel safe enough.

She'll feel plenty safe if/when I take her in my arms and treat her like a lady.

I love how you judge me when I'm pretty sure you'd totally fall for me in about 2 seconds and you'd be spinning in my arms about 2 hours later.

[NSgirl]

You went out on dates with many a man because after refusing their advances they decided against a second date with such a cold fish.

I typically sleep with the women I take out for dinner or drinks or whatever--that's the whole point really, isn't it?

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If I just wanted conversation and a dining companion I'd ask one of my buddies and we'd split the bill.

B.S.   that is not true.
actually most of the guys I dated were quite the gentleman and asked me out again before attempting to just get in my pants. not all men want to go as fast at relationships as you do.
at least the men that actually want a relationship with you, and not just use you for a night
I am quite happy to say I never had a one night stand,ever!
that might be rare but I was just not into that kind of crap.

[Fornicator]

B.S.   that is not true.
actually most of the guys I dated were quite the gentleman and asked me out again before attempting to just get in my pants. not all men want to go as fast at relationships as you do.
at least the men that actually want a relationship with you, and not just use you for a night
I am quite happy to say I never had a one night stand,ever!
that might be rare but I was just not into that kind of crap.

Right, they didn't want to get into your pants....

[Itsy Bitsy]

Ha! You're quite the dreamer Forn. I'm not one of your retarded bimbos who falls easily and tells a dozen or so guys throughout her life the magic three words. I don't "fall" ever. It takes me years of knowing someone to develop feelings for them. And a schmuck like you couldn't hide your true face for years. Not from me... as I'm not a brainless little twat.

[NSgirl]

Forny, I have never had a problem getting boyfriends,ever. I have always had a boyfriend since highschool. My relationships were alway long term. The closest thing I had to a one night stand lasted 3 months and that was with someone that worked at the same place as me and who had been interested in my for probably a good year before I even gave him the time of day.
If anything I had a problem getting rid of guys. My ex boyfriends like to keep coming back and make asses of themselves. Even my last one when he knew  I was about to get married kept trying to get me to come back.
thank god I have a new last name and none of them have a clue how to contact me.LOL
what is it with guys and not wanting to end things?
I did not need one night stands.Trust me if I had wanted them I could of been with a different guy every day.

[Fornicator]

Ha! You're quite the dreamer Forn. I'm not one of your retarded bimbos who falls easily and tells a dozen or so guys throughout her life the magic three words. I don't "fall" ever. It takes me years of knowing someone to develop feelings for them. And a schmuck like you couldn't hide your true face for years. Not from me... as I'm not a brainless little twat.

LOL, I'll bet you have a lot of guys lining up so they can get into your pants in 2017....

And what do brains have to do with twats?

[Fornicator]

Forny, I have never had a problem getting boyfriends,ever. I have always had a boyfriend since highschool. My relationships were alway long term. The closest thing I had to a one night stand lasted 3 months and that was with someone that worked at the same place as me and who had been interested in my for probably a good year before I even gave him the time of day.
If anything I had a problem getting rid of guys. My ex boyfriends like to keep coming back and make asses of themselves. Even my last one when he knew  I was about to get married kept trying to get me to come back.
thank god I have a new last name and none of them have a clue how to contact me.LOL
what is it with guys and not wanting to end things?
I did not need one night stands.Trust me if I had wanted them I could of been with a different guy every day.

Guys rarely fall in love but when we do it often seems to be a lot more profound then when women do. And, of course, women do their damndest to try to make us fall in love with them because they know they gain a certain upperhand.

Just as guys just want the "wham-bam thank-you ma'am" and then not contact the chick again, women are intent on making a guy fall in love with her and then ditching him--far more insidious, if you ask me.

[Dexter]

Forn is she



                  "Scared of Her Own Pussy"              

[Itsy Bitsy]

LOL, I'll bet you have a lot of guys lining up so they can get into your pants in 2017....

And what do brains have to do with twats?

I have no interest in the AVERAGE guy. Any guy I'd have sex with would be capable of befriending me regardless of whether or not one day I'd do them. I'm interested in a companion first. If they can't be my friend, they can't get any pussy.
The relation b/t brains a twats, you ask? Girls with brains don't treat themselves like they are nothing more than twats. Simple.

P.S. Does essentially calling a girl a prude really make you feel better about the fact that you could never touch her?

[Fornicator]

I only call girls prudes--and I rarely meet any in that category--with hopes of waking them up to the fact they're wasting their youths/lives when they should be having fun with what they've been given.

One day they were little girls and one day they will be old and dead but right now they are magnificent and shouldn't miss out on sharing the goods.

Looking for a companion first is has never worked for me. How do you go from being "friends" for a long time to suddenly cultivating passion for the person?

If anything, passionate sex comes first and the compansionship/friendship part develops out of that.

I just don't see how you can know somebody for ages and then all of a sudden ramp up the feelings for them and start having sex.

I have a number of female friends and I very much enjoy their company but I couldn't imagine having sex with them now--it would be far too weird.

I imagine it would be akin to having sex with one's sister.

[Monique]

Damn I missed on beating up on Forni! 

[Fornicator]

I'll bet you'd agree with me on this one, though, Monique.

Could you really be friends with a guy for years and suddenly develop an overwhelming sexual passion/love interest?

The last "friend" I banged was probably 10 years ago and afterwards I felt like I'd done something terrible, ha ha.

I only saw her once or twice after that and it was awkward as all hell.

I guess after you know somebody long enough and you've seen them sh- themselves when they'd had the flu or had booggers hanging out of their nose it's hard to create the fantasy or the desire that I find so important at the beginning of a relationship.

The seeing them excreting from both ends should come after you're already a couple--not before!

[Itsy Bitsy]

I never said anything about suddenly developing sexual feelings for a friend. For me the feeling is there all along. Yes, I absolutely have sexual fantasys about my male friends. Ongoing flirting and mental foreplay while getting to know a person is the best. Nothing turns me on more than being teased. I like a good amount of build up. 

As for the little girls comment, you're a fvcking asshole for thinking women who don't want to give it up to misogynistic douches like yourself are just prudes. I respect my body and refuse to settle for the mediocre sex a sh- head like you is capable of. I want mind blowing sex or none at all. None of that get in, get off, get out sh-.

[Fatz McGuinness]

 why do you girls humour this clown? he is clearly  some basement dwelling teenager virgin

[Itsy Bitsy]

Actually I wouldn't be surprised if he was married to his asian highschool sweetheart, is completely monogamous, has two children, lives in the suburbs, goes to picnics on the weekend, blah blah, blah. He's a writer, which we all know. I think he is just writing crap that it as far from his actual personality/ life as possible. Testing his story telling skills, ya know?

Anyhow, I still respond as if what he says is true because I take issue with what he says. He may not believe it, but he is certainly mimicking guys who are like that. And those douches need to be put in their place.

[Fatz McGuinness]

wow  a writer?  i would  assume   the same uncreative, monotonous, repetitive drivel every day points to  him being   very unsuccessful at his job

if this is  a taste of your talent then hang it up mate
i hear thrifty foods has a position open since rdl got fired might wanna give that a go

[yorkcountykid]

Forn is she



                  "Scared of Her Own Pussy"              

lol, good one dex lol

[Dexter]

wow  a writer?  i would  assume   the same uncreative, monotonous, repetitive drivel every day points to  him being   very unsuccessful at his job

if this is  a taste of your talent then hang it up mate
i hear thrifty foods has a position open since rdl got fired might wanna give that a go

  
 Mr. Fornicator has more class in his writing abilities than you will ever have in a life time. You have to attack a young troubled man like Richard in order to elevate yourself. I generally would feel sorry for a poster like yourself but after seeing the things you post on all the different forums I do not.



Now back to the important things in life

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